For yours truly, there is nothing sacred than the trust in a significant other of yours truly and as such is expected to be a leader as a future spouse of Ava Zinn and a supporting gitrlfriend and mother (or stepmother). It is what my family expects day in and day out what I work very hard to deliver the highest quality. I can accept no less. Mandy definitely has the righht to express her anger and outrage like any other spouse or significant other would, but causing significant property damage was definitely not the way to handle a dispute. It is with my belief as a transgendered woman approaching 31 year of age on January 4, 2014 that as the significant other of Aeverine Frathleen Nieves, Mandy’s actions on the morning of November 6, 2013 made it it too difficult for any circumstances on certain matters of yours truly going forward without an irreconcilable difference which is inconsistent with important interpersonal realtionship standards set between yours truly, a transgendered woman and Mandy, a bisexual woman approaching 32 years of age.
On the morning of November 6, 2013, Mandy and I got into a heated argument lasting 13 hours after she turned off my laptop (and causing the laptop to crash and is currently not booting up properly) as a way to get my attention to to Mandy, causing yours truly problems that spread out onto Vote for the Girls and in the end, Mandy turned herself into and served two days in jail for disorderly conduct and aggravated assault. Earlier Friday morning, I had learned from a trusted source that she got released from jail with a temporary restraining order, and is no longer welcome at my home.
Mandy decided to end the relationship, which for the first time since I began dating over 20 years ago meant that had I remained a male, this would have turned out really ugly. But as a woman, I handled the news okay, but had known that something was not quite right as she made some serious allegations that I had spent thousands of dollars getting my current home in good shape and in good condition.
Mandy Davidson had originally been the first significant other of yours truly from January 4, 1993 to December 20, 1997 and again since June 3, 2012. She is officially now the first (and thus far only) significant other of yours truly whom had been in a realtionshipo with yours truly — both as a male (1983-2003) and as a woman (2004-present).
As a result, I have to declare that dreaded Facebook post saying “Ava Zinn went from being in a relationship to single” and the search for Mandy’s replacement is underway. Sadly, this officially marks the second time as a woman I’ve ever declared single. and that proved to be very costly and causing yours truly to go deep in debt as it turned out from April 30, 2011 until June 2, 2012.
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